Cheesyts...I think its prolly not getting their way? Like she assumed I would let her see the dogs without me there..it could be get as well, I don't think she is seeing things yet because she feels so entitled to both lives? This is a 180 for me and I am not caving!!!!!!!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Hawker, I think the consistency is key. If you don't want her in the house w/o you there then definitely don't cave. I've found my WW will pull out the tears when necessary, but I'm starting to realize how it's not real and is just a tool they seem to use to get their way.
Stay strong and listen to MrBond bc I think that's good advice. Don't do things to get a reaction out of your WW, do them bc you want to.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
Wife texted at noon asking if I was ok? She said another teacher just stopped her to see if she was ok...so she must have been looking upset from the morning interaction. I said no I am not OK. And left it at that. She sai "I don't know what you want me to say?" I didn't reply. An hour later she said "thanks for bring my financial papers". I didn't reply. That's it for the rest of the night.
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
