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Originally Posted By: EDF
I really want to send an email to OM, basically saying "My wife has asked for no contact. If you contact my wife, I will send your fiance copies of your emails."


What did you wind up doing about this?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final
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I decided to continue my "no contact" with OM. Was very tempting, but I agreed with AndrewP and the DB party line that it's not worth the risk... too many ways it could go really bad, like if OM panicked and came clean to his wife (OMW) and OMW decided full exposure was the best route and outed my wife on Facebook.

Better to just stay focused on my side of things and treat OM as irrelevant.

I've written an update post on my overall sitch a few times over the past couple weeks, but keep scrapping it... situation is fuzzy. In a nutshell: As far as I can tell WW has maintained NC with OM and I'm sure she would say we're "piecing". Things have been nice, and her actions have remained very promising, but I don't fully trust it yet. Right now I'm just trying to avoid labeling it; enjoy my time with her, while still enjoying my own GAL stuff and friends as well, and just letting some time pass while I'm focused on being my best me.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11
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Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11
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