Weekend has been ok. Took the boys to the pool yesterday. They also played on the playscape outside.
Its been 6 days of NC between STBX and the boys. I guess she was serious when she said she would detach from them back in January. I think a person like this needs serious therapy.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Weekend has been ok. Took the boys to the pool yesterday. They also played on the playscape outside.
Its been 6 days of NC between STBX and the boys. I guess she was serious when she said she would detach from them back in January. I think a person like this needs serious therapy.
Should I express my concerns to her about this?
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Weekend has been ok. Took the boys to the pool yesterday. They also played on the playscape outside.
Its been 6 days of NC between STBX and the boys. I guess she was serious when she said she would detach from them back in January. I think a person like this needs serious therapy.
Should I express my concerns to her about this?
No.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Weekend has been ok. Took the boys to the pool yesterday. They also played on the playscape outside.
Its been 6 days of NC between STBX and the boys. I guess she was serious when she said she would detach from them back in January. I think a person like this needs serious therapy.
Should I express my concerns to her about this?
What is there to gain from expressing your concerns to her? Everything you have shared here says she has no interest in your concerns.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
Weekend has been ok. Took the boys to the pool yesterday. They also played on the playscape outside.
Its been 6 days of NC between STBX and the boys. I guess she was serious when she said she would detach from them back in January. I think a person like this needs serious therapy.
Who did she say that to? Does the psychologist know?
Just document, document, document. She really doesn't care what you think or say, so don't criticize her (that's what she's going to hear if you express concern). Don't have any visible opinion on anything she does, unless the children are in immediate danger.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
STBX said that to me back in January. I have told the psychologist.
Thank you all for the advice of not bringing it up.
I think the boys are bonding with me more. S2 and S4 are getting a lot of attention feom me, they keep wqnting to be held and hugged.
When I out them for naps one of the S6s hugs me for 2 to 5 minutes.
They have been listening more and help out around the apartment.
For all they have been through I am amazed how well they are handling this.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
