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NYGal,

You are doing fantastic!!! Please try to remember to focus on the positives, rather than the negatives. What you focus on expands. Remember?

Keep it up.....

Perhaps you would want to re-read RealityTrip's threads for I do see eerily parallels between you and RT's sitches. I think you could take a page or two from her playbook (yeah, you two are basketball wives!).

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What is the connection with the basketball wives? Haha...was one as well....

Keep it up NYGal!!


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NYGal's wife is a basketball coach as well as RealityTrip....aren't you one too, Hawker? Isn't your wife a BB coach too? grin

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I was/am NEVER a basketball wife...done one better. A player!!! Yeah....a forward, baby! swish

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Yes, my wife was a basketball coach.. smile I was a player 2!! A guard, shooting the 3's haha


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Wonka, Hawk and NYGal. Final Four 2017. See ya there!


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Sounds like great plan!!!!!!!!!


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W, along with several others, received an invitation to participate in an interview for the position ow is applying for. I think it's inappropriate for her to participate in this due to the personal nature of their relationship. I also think she should stay the he!! away because it's her former affair partner and our relationship is so raw right now.

Why can't she see this? She skips plenty of other interviews, why is she asking my permission to attend? This is one of those situations where if she said, "I'm not going to attend because our relationship is more important," it would help, not hurt our R.

What should I do?


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I thought she wasn't going??? When did she ask your permission?


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Originally Posted By: NYGal
W, along with several others, received an invitation to participate in an interview for the position ow is applying for. I think it's inappropriate for her to participate in this due to the personal nature of their relationship. I also think she should stay the he!! away because it's her former affair partner and our relationship is so raw right now.



Is the invitation for your W to be an interviewer for the OW promotion?


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August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
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