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-reading a good book on coping with D right now that's been very helpful
-been frequenting 12 step phone meetings and talked to some new people from the west coast the other day that were nice
-Game of Thrones finale


Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs
D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs
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My daughters
My employment
My health


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
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-something me and my friends were talking about over txt message yesterday made me laugh so much, it was the first time I laughed so much in many weeks
-Japanese meatballs at this health food restaurant I go to
-I'll be seeing my kids pretty soon and going on a nice vacation with them


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- I am grateful that I have found a couple new friends.

-I am grateful for my health.

-I am grateful for good neighbors.


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Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
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Walk away: 12/15
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Grateful for the quality time with my daughters yesterday. Swimming at the pool, playing candy land and d5 winning every time, dinner and movie together. Lovely evening.

Grateful for my close friend and father speaking with me yesterday. About nothing in particular, but just good old fashion male bonding conversations about life and the pursuit of happiness.

Grateful for the things I am going through as it has forced me to not only think but also take action on things that will create a more purposeful journey in life with growth and joy along the way.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
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-meeting went well at work yesterday
-I'm glad I had some alone time the past few days, I really needed it to think about stuff
-I can tell my wife's attitude towards me is softening up a little


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I am grateful that I have doctors that genuinely care about me. Their support has been very important and it is good to know that it is genuine.

I am grateful to have seen a gray fox kit in my yard tonight, and that its mother has not harmed any of my chickens to keep it fed!

I am grateful that my pets are all mostly-healthy and living full lives.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
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Grateful for a working car that has lasted longer than my M and will probably last another decade.

Would prefer that my M lasted longer than my car but hey, I am not complaining about having one fewer kick in the butt.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
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Grateful to have a week away from work where I can get things in order, have some fun with d17 and relaxation bit.

For my health. I have regained a few of the pounds from my depression diet, amid exercising daily and feeling stronger each day.

For the good feelings and hope I am feeling each day. I have felt good, positive and look forward to a bright future of late. Lots of work to do, but I am in a very positive place mentally and it feels good.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

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Swimming pools to hang out with my daughters.

Indoor pirate themed mini golf to play with my daughters.

Candy land game to play with my daughters.

The Pixar movie The Incredibles to watch with my daughters.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
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