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NYGal #2692128 07/23/16 07:19 AM
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So ny gal,
I did good yesterday keeping myself busy. Didn't even think about texting the W. Then at 6:30 pm she texted me about her mom.s health, her day and that she was going out with a guy friend to catch up....I waited and tried to keep answers short..... This is an area I need to work on!!! Lol


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

hawker #2692282 07/24/16 12:21 PM
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Keep up the good work!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2692338 07/24/16 07:39 PM
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Thanks NYGal...I spent the day at a pool party with friends...had a great time...no contact with W as of yet so I'm hanging in there! smile


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

hawker #2692722 07/26/16 12:57 PM
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Keep posting so we know how you're doing, hawk!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2692739 07/26/16 02:22 PM
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I am doing ok...I went all weekend without contact and yesterday I made the mistake of answering her texts because she kept asking questions about my family and our friends...ugh...back to going dim today!!

Is it normal for the WW to not want to talk with the friends who were hers first and then became mine? They have been friends since they grew up....they are all supporting me...that is probably why I would assume....


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

hawker #2692895 07/27/16 08:32 AM
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NYgal...saw my W email to OW...they are planning a trip to an area we used to go....that is a kick in the gut....ugh...


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

hawker #2692900 07/27/16 08:45 AM
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OW?
I'm new here, all this lingo confuses me.

Why are you looking at her emails? this will only hurt you! You can do it!!!
I un-followed my W on Facebook, I refuse to look at her snaps, seeing who she's with and what she's doing only hurts!


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017
hawker #2692904 07/27/16 08:58 AM
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Oh darnit, that's not good. So she's still seeing her? Then I'd say go super dim. Don't give her the pleasure of your company. As long as this A is going on, you need to stay away so she misses you. Especially while she's away with her. Remember, my W went on vacay with ow to a tropical warm country in April, and while there she missed me. So let's keep our fingers crossed that she'll become disenchanted with ow when she realizes she's not as warm or loving or fun or honest or loyal or whatever as you.
BTW, how did you see the email?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2692907 07/27/16 09:08 AM
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I know....ugh...ok, I will go super dim now....yes that is all I can hope for is that when they spend time together she will see its not like how we were...ummm..i snooped...LOL...I know you aren't supposed to but I wanted to see if they were still seeing each other...I guess I know...


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

hawker #2692908 07/27/16 09:16 AM
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Clearte,

OW is other woman....I know I should not have looked at her email...I wanted to see if they were still carrying on the A


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

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