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NYGal #2691198 07/18/16 03:48 PM
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OMG NYGal, thank you so so much!!! This is exactly the situation I am in!!!! She says she feels so bad and just cries all the time and says one day she knows what she wants and one day she doesnt, all our friends and family love me, blah blah..

Yes she had a bit of low self-esteem and quit coaching which she did for years, her mother got sick and we had issues with my best friend (alcohol) that took alot of my time away...she started talking to a co-worker and boom....ugh...I hope the fog will wear off soon...lol...its been 6 months!!

I quit pressuring her and I told her I have to let you go....I'm going dimmer because I have that exciting life to live!!! :)))

Thanks again!!


W:42 M:48
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EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
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hawker #2691205 07/18/16 04:05 PM
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OMG, my W was a coach too... Are you kidding me?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2691206 07/18/16 04:12 PM
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Hahah NO I am not kidding


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hawker #2691238 07/18/16 07:27 PM
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Which sport? College level?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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High School Girls Basketball


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hawker #2691255 07/18/16 08:56 PM
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Ok well there the similarities end.
W coached college WBB!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2691259 07/18/16 09:09 PM
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Still pretty close!! smile


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How are things, hawker? Hang in there. I hope your W comes around, and I hope she does it before she digs a deeper hole. I wish I could have W talk to her. As coaches they speak the same language, and W is SO remorseful about the choices she made.

Don't let W think you are just waiting for her. Have fun, live it up, and do your crying in private, or with trusted friends who won't tell W.

Post on others' threads, so they'll find yours, and then the advice will come pouring in.

I hope Wonka finds you. She's family, and is a legend around here.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2691566 07/20/16 09:14 AM
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Hey NYGal...I am hanging in there...I hope she comes around as well...I am trying to have fun and cry in private! smile Yes, I have read alot of Wonka's posts, she is a legend...thanks for checking in I appreciate your posts!!!

Yes, coaches have a special language...who knows if my W would listen now anyway though!! smile


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Hawk, you're still in "the early days" as we say. It takes a while for them to figure things out. It sounds like it could happen for you the same way it happened for me -- that you'll make it back together. She's in a fog for sure, and it takes a while for the fog to clear.
Don't be too available, and GAL. Be your beautiful, fun self whenever you're out and certainly whenever she might see you or hear about you. Are you on FB or some other social media?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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