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Your h needs to cut all ties w/ the ow, as well as being transparent in what he is doing, i.e., telephone, email and text messages. If he wants the marriage to work, he has a lot of work to do and to earn your trust once more. Taking him back over and over again is too easy for him. He has to do the work in order to come back to you. He's been living in a revolving door entirely too long. Time to shut that door down and if he truly wants to reconcile, he will need to find a way to do it w/you.

BTW, it's time to start a new thread.


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As far as I can see there has never been any repercussions for his actions. He acts horribly then trots back home as if all is well. One of these times he comes back and says this is where I want to be, you need to respond maybe so, but I'm not sure this is where I want you to be and it's my decision, buddy.



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Hey, Mel! Its been awhile. Hope you're ok?


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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