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Thanks to all of you, I am a bit stuck at the mo, not really wanting to believe it is happening, getting out with friends and signed up for Ceroc dance classes, but have a lack of singles in a similar position, so feel a bit stranded sometimes, Doing Therapy and mindfulness, but slow progress, and have a number of people I can download on, having read many posts on this site, I am not burning bridges with W, but no begging or crying, just being pleasant and indifferent, but worried that by keeping even the smallest amount of hope alive, will just set back the recovery process, Very aware of being 61, even before the split I was having bit of an identity crisis, which probably didn't help. So bit of a double whammy, any advice greatly appreciated, female point of view, IE Sandy2 welcomed

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Hi Cristy, thanks for offer, but I am uk based

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Hi SH, just noticed that your situation arose in pretty much same time frames as mine, and a lot of others on the site, my w affair started 4/12, went into overdrive between Xmas and New year, discovered mid Jan, half hearted repair attempt for 2 weeks , moved out end of Feb, nothing filed yet, but wants to talk about money etc

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Originally Posted By: Martin5
Hi Cristy, thanks for offer, but I am uk based

There are lots of people in the UK that do phone counseling.


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Hi Martin5,

We work with many, many people from all over the world. Being in the UK isn't an issue at all. We would just need to figure out the time difference when scheduling the time with your DB Coach.

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Originally Posted By: Martin5
Hi SH, just noticed that your situation arose in pretty much same time frames as mine, and a lot of others on the site, my w affair started 4/12, went into overdrive between Xmas and New year, discovered mid Jan, half hearted repair attempt for 2 weeks , moved out end of Feb, nothing filed yet, but wants to talk about money etc


It seems to follow a script with WAS/WS.
It provides an odd type of comfort, in that we the LBS is not crazy as it seems to come out of nowhere. Details can change from sitch to sitch, but there are many consistent behaviors.

I hope you have been well today.


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Hi SH, thanks for your concern, looks like we are following similar timescales, spoke to W yesterday about division of assets, which I will have to start on, she only moved out 3 months ago, but communication is like with a stranger now, very surreal, how is your state of mind, do you still have contact with he, are the kids with you or her. On a positive note for you SH, you are only 44, I am 60, I am probably paying the price for having been convinced by W 22 years ago, that the age gap would not matter

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Hi SH, thanks for your concern, looks like we are following similar timescales, spoke to W yesterday about division of assets, which I will have to start on, she only moved out 3 months ago, but communication is like with a stranger now, very surreal, how is your state of mind, do you still have contact with her, are the kids with you or her. On a positive note for you SH, you are only 44, I am 60, I am probably paying the price for having been convinced by W 22 years ago, that the age gap would not matter

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Check out SMLX5's posts. You will 60 is just a number.


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Check out SMLX5's posts. You will *see* 60 is just a number.


Me 46 Former W 46
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WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
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