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Yep, and the cops will show up and say, "Them is some mighty big chicken legs."

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Hey,

Stand your ground on this one. Don't budge an inch.

Your doing the right thing looking out for you. You can do this.


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"this guy" doesn't 'skip leg day'!


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Well, hopefully all you get is a great meal and an easy mind. Maybe "cops" will happen somewhere else in the neighborhood and you'll get a show with that meal. smile


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Well, kind of expected, no call back, no show, no text... I did enjoy my dinner though. Who knows what's she'll think of the situation tomorrow. Maybe good, maybe bad, maybe it's the one thing that actually pushes her to file for D. Who knows.

I am still curious to hear what DDJ has to say about the comment and my response. I'm wondering if DDJ didn't know the whole story, of if he/she still thinks it's a bad idea to "drop the rope" and continue on with the separation on the house. DDJ?


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betterm,

I still say this whole thing sounds suspicious. You were grilling (supposedly chicken) and drinking beer, your wife never shows up, there's talk of cops...

I think DDJ is going on a weekend vacation so he may be out of pocket all weekend.

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I can't tell if you're joking or not. Suspicious? I did grill out but since W felt she wasn't being 'allowed' in her house... people do crazy things when they're raging.


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betterm,

I'm sorry, I was joking. I should've added a smiley face. I don't think you'd grill your wife; mostly because you'd probably have to get a bigger grill (joking again - sorry again).

Actually, when you mentioned grilling it reminded me of the movie "Fried Green Tomatoes." You'd have to see it to understand.

I hope you got good night's sleep despite your wife not returning home.

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Got it! Ha! Sometimes it's hard to translate raw text to emphasized meaning. She's going to be hitting me hard with wanting to stay there tonight I know. I have a feeling it's going to be like this for a while.


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betterm,

Yep, with regard to hitting you hard, I don't know about your wife, but mine knows all of my buttons and she pushes all of them at once. She's good. I constantly remind myself that have to validate. And, by the way, if you say to your wife, "yes, I understand that you're an @sshole" that's not a good validation.

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