Want away wife

[blueboy]

Well thing seem truly over!

[DDJ]

God closes a door so that we can get an axe and chop a whole through the wall and find our way out.

[blueboy]

DDJ, I hope so mate, I hope so!

[blueboy]

Told her to take responsiblity for her actions and how it's made me feel and that I'm not being treated like she has been doing! She cried and admitted she had f@@k up and made a mistake! I told her she has to stop blaming other poeple!

I've told her we can't live together whist we are like this!

[DDJ]

Wasted words tho. You just need to protect what little you have left and rebuild.

[blueboy]

True made me feel better thou!

She is in small txt mode, told me I shocked the [censored] out of her!

[coffee_]

Sorry for your situation. First off, stop treating her like a queen. Easier said than done if you have been doing this for the whole M.
I am in the exact situation, wife wants space etc. Give it to her. She will do what she wants anyway. The space is for you. If you have little ones then make sure you don't neglect their needs. A hard balancing act for sure because you will still need to communicate with her about that.
Sorry to hear your going through this, remember you are not alone!

[blueboy]

Sandi

When you say tough love, what do you mean, how tough is tough?

Any advice would be good!

[blueboy]

Wife want me to go through the process of selling house and telling everyone this is mutual separation as she doesn't want to be seen leaving the family home for another man!

[doodler]

blueboy,

She's leaving you for another man, breaking up your family and making you sell the house and she wants you to tell everyone that it's mutual.

What advice would you give someone else if they told you the same thing that you told us?