Don't send the email to her work regarding the affair. It is best for you to focus on being the best 198127 that only a fool would leave.
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Sorry you find yourself here. Please get a copy of the book, it will really help.
You'll see from other posts that most WS follow the same script. My h also was under a lot of stress, still no excuse. And was also singing my praises until a few months back. Are you on good terms with your in laws? My MIL has been such valuable support to me.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
So sorry to hear what's going on, I thought I was dealing with a WAW (no Affair) for the last month, 1230 this morning I confirmed that to be false.... It's one hell of a ride. The good thing is the last month I've been GAL and getting in shape, and disengaging so I was able to handle it a lot better.
I got a lot of great advice from some of the top vets on the site, you may want to read the last two or three pages of my thread, it may help to gain insight into disengaging and backing off.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
Yes. Her mother in law flew in the next morning and she spent the night in the hotel with her mother in law and tonight they are both at our house. MIL said she thinks "we talked her off the ledge" I have also been in contact with other wife and she finally saw the OM tonight (both had been traveling) and got him to say he was acting a bit crazy and to try and not see my wife for the next week. His parents and her parents are coming into town this weekend to talk to him. They are such a close family that his parents are staying at her parent's house. Small steps.
The work affair is so commonplace now so hard to break. My WW is with her boss now. I decided not to expose her and nate as focus on myself. Read as much as you can here to gain from the experiences of others. Good luck. You are in our prayers.
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
