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Thanks SadHub, I tried a meditation audio track to help me sleep after I woke up at 1am this morning. It kinda worked but I was up again at 4am. Tried to focus on breathing and to chase away the racing thoughts.

I have a practical question to the forum as WW is planning to make her final move out Saturday. Up to now, I've only told a small circle of friends and family about our problems. With her imminent move, how do you suggest I tell people if they ask? Just "we've separated, going through some tough times" or "she filed for divorce after I caught her having an emotional affair for the past 9 years?" How much information should I offer, if any? These are not close friends but acquaintances from S11's school or baseball teams.


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We're currently separated.... PERIOD IMHO


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