Symptoms/signs of IF?

[ReNewed]

Someone suggested there might be EA or PA with my story, I have no idea. I would not have guessed. We did recently arrive in a new city, I didn't know he was planning to 'stay' and leave suddenly (WAS/H). He had just met a bunch of new exciting colleagues in his field, works remotely/online, and has history of online pornography addiction (no signs of this in 5 years though). Hadn't seen anything of concern on his phone/PC before he left, checked once ina while even week before, so don't know. All I know is he was very consumed with his new dream job (online) on top of 2nd job.
He wont tell me where he's living though, not sure if it's becasue he's afraid since I'm in delicate place emotionally (was depresse right before he ran away) or afraid I'd be angry (sometimes but wouldn't even go near him right now, unless arranged meeting, too painful)?
He blocked me right awy day he left on Facebook, changed status to Separated, but kept our mutual friends. Nothing of concern per them. Jiust lots of posts about business, new career, politics. I don't really want to speculate honestly. He only recently (after 2 months and recent meeing iwth priest) deleted ALL our photos. Before, there were still some lingering posted by other friends (according to such friends). Trying not to dwell on it.
I just want to reconcile. love is a decision and I made mine and believe in it.
Still truly believe we are meant to be and our marriage is a gift from God. Despite how he's treating it and trying to erase and negate it.
Also, I did not contact him at all on his birthday this week, nor his mother, though it was very ahrd; I love them both very much and didn't do it to be mean. Just way of going dark, withdrawing.

Any tips on internet addiction, A's? Insight into this sitch?

[twinmom]

Can you give some background history? Or do you have another thread?