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LOL, I was joking! I do think you've given her some really good advice though.


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EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it
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Mind reading is my hardest part as well. Don't feel too bad for yourself.

I suck at it too!


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Im the king of mind reading!

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I can mind read something good to bad.


I beg to differ!


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I know that you think all of my advice so far has been to "move on". I just want to let you in on this:

Most of the time, doing nothing is the BEST thing you can do for your marriage.

I'm thinking of you NYG. You can do this.

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you have said that thousand times. It is so true. When i feel, ok I need to get over W and move on and i force myself to do things right or wrong, I end up crashing. Hard.

when i decide just to be with myself and do nothing. I feel good. Still Gal but i think yo get it.


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W moved out 11/1/15
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Good morning NYGal. You've been quiet. I hope you're okay.


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NYGal just stopped by to say hello, hang in there because better days are coming. Be well



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NYG,

Are you okay, sweetie? Please let us know you're alive.... grin

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I'm here, Wonka. Just reeling from some news about W's lies about me spreading around town. I texted her because I felt I had to let her know. I know it wasn't good DBing, but I didn't care anymore. It's all on Rain's thread.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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