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[gonegrl]

V, I was just catching up on your thread, somehow I missed some things and I am praying for your safety. I am not experienced in the art of rainbow love projectio, but I am visualizing you surrounded by a soft white light of protection. May you be safe and at peace, my friend, you put so much positivity and love into the world, may it come back to you multiplied.

[PigPen]

Oh wow, I've missed out on some things in you life too sweet V.

I'd love to get to spend some alone time with your XH in a less than well lit alley.

Just to give him a few pointers on social graces.

Sending you a lot of love and protection.

PP

[Vanilla]

I am very sad about WH. I heard him rant in the background on a call. He was clearly drunk.

WH has destructive behaviours:

He drinks heavily
He drives under the influence
He smokes heavily
He gambles
He spends heavily
He eats, red meat, pork pies, crisps, chips, cheese, white bread, takeaways, junk food etc
He sleeps badly
He abuses others, rants and is destructive

In all likelihood this won't extend his life expectancy.

V

[rd500]

Hi Vanillia. Its ok to feel sad It's a very sad situation I like to think H will have his eureka moment and see why he's unhappy It very easy to blame others and other things but we all have to look inward when things don't improve when we are living a certain way

Higher power has a good bit of work to do with H and I have no doubt your sending positives thoughts his way. I'll join you for today , let's hope his destructive path is nearing an end

Stay strong Lady V. Your a good person

Take care. Rd xx

[Ancaire]

V...My thread is getting buried in extremely long posts, so I wanted to answer you over here. Sadly, low blood sugar isn't a problem. Mine's been on the high side of normal lately. I've since ditched carbs and am avoiding refined anything. It's been helping a bit, but with stress through the roof (until today, really) everything in my body has been off. I'm looking forward to seeing what some peace and meditation do to level everything out.

[ep0215]

Sweet V - I am sorry you are feeling sad today. I will join RD in sending positive thoughts to your WH today. I pray for your strength and very sweet soul.

((((HUGS))))

[Vanilla]

Anc

I am type 2, long term markers have gone down from 9 to 6.5.

I still suffer from hypos, about two a month, blood sugar drops below 5. Hypo is a temporary state, it needs testing at the time of the hypo.

So just because your bloods are on the high is an indication that it could be a hypo. Hypos happen to those with unstable bloods and that means higher than normal sugars most of the time. In fact what you say makes it more likely you may have hypos.

V

[Ancaire]

Oh. Ok. I have a monitor here, so I'll start keeping track. That is really good info to be aware of!

Thank you.

[mahhhty]

I'm sorry V.

I wasn't aware that you still had to converse with him.

I watched Inside Out with my kids yesterday and now realize being sad is necessary and can bring the relief one needs in many different forms.