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Here is my new thread. Please post here as I love the support from all of you. God Bless you all and here is to finding peace!

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Remember YOU are the most important person in your life! You have been if a great support to me since I have joined this forum and I deeply thank you for that.
I'll always check in you no matter what :-)

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Gosh I meant I'll check in on you!

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Thank you so much Rouky. You are my best friend and your perspective always lifts my spirits. If I live to be a thousand years old I will never forget what you have done for me. Your husband is an idiot for treating you the way that he is but I think that unfortunately there is something Darwinian(natural selection) about his and my wife's behavior. Just be sure that going forward that you do not accept less that your expectations from a man whether that is from your husband or the next lucky guy that gets to call you his wife.


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TBH I think your wife as well as my H are fools and probably have few issues that they probably will never address as for them we are in the wrong.
Shame :-(

I don't think I'll marry again. I have done it once and got badly burnt, so living as civil partner seems a good thing to me.

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OK, you two...you've clearly bonded over the loser status of your STBXs. I would like to apply for admission to the club, please. I believe I qualify. My H is clearly out of his mind. He's abandoned all the qualities I once held dear. His happiness is way more important than the happiness of his family. He has a loving, loyal, faithful wife who's willing to forgive him...and he still chooses to leave. He calls his wife names and degrades her. Loser, right? So, can I join your club?

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Of course you can Ancaire. The more the merrier. Hope you are keeping well x

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Ancaire if you don't join our club you will be conscripted. Your husband is obviously an idiot and is probably several years away from his real awakening that will bring him a lifetime of regret. We have frequent meetings here to cry, laugh and search for solace. Here you will find loyal friends with undying love and concern, support. There are no membership fees just the ownership of a kind heart and the desire to find peace and to help others to do so. You will be a blessed addition to our club as Rouky has been a blessing to me in the midst of an absolute nightmare. Her kindness and strength has pulled me through many a tough day. Please report often and tell your friends!


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This seems like a lovely place. Can I join too please?


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

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EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

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ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

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Welcome, focus22!


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
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"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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