I am so sorry about what has happened. There are a lot of crazy/desperate people out there that would do just about anything to remove the spouse from the situation, i.e., to clear the way for them and the "spouse" in the affair. Please be careful.

Please start a new thread and link this one to the new thread. I'll take care of linking the new thread to this one.

New Thread:

2 sides to every story .. final chapter

Last edited by job; 04/22/17 12:55 PM. Reason: Added link to new thread

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.