Ha ha. It's like an old spy movie. You ask me how the weather is in Spain and I say the key phrase. It rains on the plain. Other than than you know your talking to an interloper.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
W has left to go to her parents. She has taken the kids and there will be just me and SD (although she's at her boyfriends today) in the house this week (plus two cats).
Last time she left, she was in an enormous hurry to get out of the house. Today, she has laid in and left about 20 minutes ago. She has left in a foul mood. The reason? Because my kids broke down in the car saying they didn't want to go. Of course, this was my fault - 'D is crying her eyes out! What have you said to her'. Of course, I haven't said anything but reassurance, but this doesn't match my W's wonderfully fluffy impression of her trip away. I defended myself by just saying 'If that's what you think, that's OK'. Needless to say, she didn't say goodbye to me.
Now, W doesn't know I have a GAL activity with NDY this week, nor another next Saturday. Although W hasn't told me, she's coming back Friday. I'm not cancelling, I need a break.
So, just watching some TV and mellowing out today. Will get the washing done and just rest. The chest infection has knocked me this weekend, so I need to catch up on some sleep.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Urrgh....0335 and I was awake. I couldn't get back to sleep. Combination of nightmare, chest infection and not being able to turn my brain off. I'm tired, but have made it in to work.
W didn't call to say she'd got to her parents. Didn't really expect her to and I wasn't going to call. My SD, however, texted her and got no response. I guess that foul mood didn't decrease any on her trip!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Huddy and NDY ....Im from UK as well and in a similar position to Huddy except W wants me to leave family home.
She wants an amicable separation and amicable divorce. I work away a lot with my job so I the dynamics of who will have the kids, where and when will be changing weekly.
Our is a Sex Starved marriage - which is difficult for me to admit - I love her to bits and think she is beautiful and a wonderful mum.
I'll read your threads and use them for strength
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
I'm glad you find some strength in my inane ramblings! I hope anything I write is of help. After all, we're all in this together looking for a way out.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Do you have a thread? Looks like this has been going on for quite a while for you according to you sig. I feel for you my friend.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Pity I dont live in Scotland as I could do with a pint. I am in Glasgow on 29th and 30th October so could probably meet for a pint on the evening of 29th?
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
