Take the bull by the horns or its nuts (humour) is my way of telling you clearly to wake up, manup and face your problems and do something about them but most importantly respect yourself.
I saw a video some time ago of a girl whose brother sang her a song while the whole family, brothers, uncles, grandfather and inlaws took turns to dance with her while she cried. All because her father had died and couldnt be present. The parents, besides the bride & groom are the most important people there. She is your daughter and you would be happy being cameraman as a consolation prize?
Read yourself G. How does that come across?
I bet if your W asked you to not do it and let her OM do it to avoid problems you would pull out the Canon EOS and fire away or ask Sandi what should you do.
G, As a man we all have our limits, we mark our boundaries, we take so much... your pit of acceptance and self resignation looks bottomless.
You just seem happy to accept any s**t thrown at you.
I am probably explaining what I mean in a lousy way but come on G ... really?
Well just got back from the dance class and you know what ....I actually did very well was complemented on the fact that it was my first time and I did well so ....ha
Also it did mean that for 2 hrs I was completely taken away from my sitch having to try to remember dance steps.....Cha cha cha
It was fun ....ghost had fun ....now back home and back to reality
Going to get an early night try and catch up with some sleep
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
. Going to be an interesting night