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Huddy #2612335 10/04/15 07:34 PM
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NDY

you really are amazing you have come so far

Take care my friend

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Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.
ATPeace #2612342 10/04/15 08:51 PM
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Ghost. Thank you. I have followed your thread. I know what you are going through but you will see this through. I just know it. Peace my friend.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
NDY #2612745 10/06/15 12:15 PM
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Hi Guys

Well, what a difference a few days makes. I now have an offer on the house and WW wants to accept. It's a little less than I'd hoped and the entry dates are very soon (December). This now means I need to find a place asap. Fortunately I work in a field where I can get access to a lot of information on property for sale.

I have 2 viewings teed up for tomorrow while I have S10. I've explained to WW that I'm happy to accept the offer as long as I have a place to go. Renting isn't an option as it's very cut throat (poor Huddy is just finding this out now if you follow his thread. Hopefully it'll work out for him).

I'd love to be in a new place before the new year. New house, new year new start. It would be such a relief to finally rid myself of the shackles that were the last year and a half of my life.

So fingers crossed. I'll keep you all posted when I find out more.

And one more thing - Ghost, if you read this mate I was in your place not so long ago. I know my M is over for good and I also had all the anxiety over selling up etc. But it will pass if you follow the advice you get here.

Peace my friends


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
NDY #2612769 10/06/15 01:22 PM
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Sad conclusion, but at least you now have some closure.


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BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Huddy #2612781 10/06/15 02:03 PM
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Lots mate, lots.

Yes it's sad but liberating at the same time. I'm quite excited about getting my own place and starting a new life. If I can get a house where I want I'll be near friends and will have a social life. At the moment living in a village means there isn't much to do so GAL requires traveling. The new place it's all on my doorstep.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
NDY #2612789 10/06/15 02:30 PM
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NDY, sounds like positive changes for you smile


Me:33 H:36
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ep0215 #2612803 10/06/15 03:09 PM
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Hi ep

Yip, they sure are. Interactions with STBX are simply business and S10 arrangements now. Totally detached and looking forward to the future.

It's hard but stay the path and you get there. May not save your M but after a while when you look back you ask if you really would want to. The last year 1/2 was hell. No way I'd want to be with someone like that. Just no.

Peace


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
NDY #2613855 10/09/15 03:05 PM
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I've got my new house.

Dates for moving in coincide with moving out of the old place. They say these things come in threes so I'm putting on a lottery ticket tomorrow


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
NDY #2613893 10/09/15 04:44 PM
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Ha ha! Well done that man! That was quick work. You must have viewed, bid and been accepted on the same date!

Maybe I'll ask for your selection of Lotto numbers.


M 45 W 52
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BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Huddy #2613935 10/09/15 06:53 PM
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Ha ha.

Yea mate. That's because I'm the indecisive one that doesn't take control and never organises anything.

I have a new home. She's still at her sisters. Pregnant. At 42. To a man that's never shown her any commitment.

Can't make this stuff up.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
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