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Oh V!! People truly do invent their own realities don't they? No-one wants to be the villain in their own life story I guess....

I'm glad he was called out on that by someone.

Hope you're having a good weekend otherwise xx


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It's always easier to blame the innocent party. Don't stoop to his level with a response.


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Buddy, I just put the record straight on lies, very gently. Such as 'if only that was so' and ' that's not my recollection'

It's enough.

Like Zs WH, mine is trying to rewrite history to make himself look good. Others know, liars keep their lies in short term memory and find it hard to repeat.

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As always. Class. Pure class.

Take care. Rd. cxxx

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Oh, V.

I am so glad you are not letting it worry you as some misunderstanding and chasing him now that you've heard it. Yes, it sounds very familiar.

I just put V is for Vendetta in the DVD player and thought of you happily about ten minutes ago.


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Bring the salt and holy water.

U, the office was flooded again this morning after a night of heavy rain. The freeholder has done nothing about the drains. There isn't much I can do except have it pumped out again.

I must watch V is for Vendetta Z. If you are coming to the UK, I recommend Brighton.

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Hi V.

Sorry to hear about the flooding again.

Depending on where its coming from there are a few things that can be done to protect your property. Some insurers will also consider covering installation as part of any remedial works.

The environment agency has good resources and if you Google 'flood toolkit' or 'property level flood protection' you'll find all kinds of useful information.

Regardless, you should report both instances to the council (county or unitary depending where you are) they are required to investigate recurring flooding (beyond a threshold) and if appropriate take enforcement action.

I hope the damage isn't too bad.


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Jim the units were empty just a bit of carpet which was to be removed anyway. But they are damp.

Thank you for the advice, I am on the case tomorrow. It was payroll weekend.

V

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V, so sorry for the flooding. You are such a strong woman, I know you'll be fine. I'm just sorry you have to go through so much. (((V)))



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Hi Vanillia. Bad news re flooding Jim had a good fewsuggestions. Hope you get it sorted.

Take care. Rd. xx

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