GOOD MORNING!! I had a great weekend!!:) D21 and boyfriend came down for the weekend. We all went shopping for school clothes and supplies for the young kids. We all played golf Friday night. Than I played in a tournament all weekend and had a great time. Kids loved having their big sister home to spend time with them.
Got some good news over the weekend. D21 and boyfriend are engaged!! He is a good guy. She said he had to ask me first. S19 and his girlfriend are having a baby! So all kinds of good things over the weekend!!
STBXW sent D21 a text over the weekend and said she wanted to work on their relationship. D21 told her that it is going to take way more than a text message to repair the damage she has done. But maybe things will work out so they can start working on things. Who knows. S7 is asking me questions now. I am trying to answer them the best I can without sounding like I am bashing STBXW. I explained to him that I can not be married to WW anymore because she found a new boyfriend while still married to me and I will not be treated that way. We are going to discuss it more with the counselor.
School starts tomorrow! I think it will be good for the kids to get back into a routine.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Took D12 and S7 to counseling yesterday. Found out more about their trip to CA from the counselor. She only shares things with me that concern her. There were several things that concerned her.
Kids first day at school today!! They were happy!! STBXW keeps texting me wanting to see the pictures I took of them this morning. To be honest, I am having a hard time sending the pictures to her. I am not her husband, friend or anything anymore. She decided to have an affair and move away. She could have been here for this experience. It was her choice.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Yes it was WW choice, it may suit you to be cooperative on these minor issues and that keeps you sweet in the kids eyes.
That is the only reason I was willing to share pictures. I am not trying to win brownie points in case WW wants to come home. I am not interested an ANY reconcilation!!! To me sharing pictures is kinda like like cake eating. She gets to share in the moments, but gets to leave the marriage and doesn't have to deal with the rest of the issues.
Guess one of my faults is how I handle things when I have been hurt and wronged. Guard goes up!! Than I don't want to be your friend, your buddy or your friendly neighbor. You become sort of a aquaintance.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
LOL!!