I am sorry to hear D12 had a melt down. It does take a village to raise a kid and right now you are doing it all alone plus with a full time job. Give yourself some credit for how hard that is. Also don't forget to take steps to get her more support for where she is right now in upstate New York - even if it is only temporary.
I know how freaking overwhelming it is being a single mom so don't beat yourself up over anything. You are doing the best you can with what you have. It will only get better.
Thinking of you
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
Reading Stephen Covey's First Things First and I'm pretty sure it's changing my life. ;-)
Loving my ADD Women's Group.
D12 and I talked. She is miserable. I already knew that. Me too. It isn't just the job, location or lack of support here... It's all of it alllll together.
Considering the part-time gig. It would pay our rent on a nice place. I'd need to supplement for other expenses.
I can't keep this up. I'm done. We've been through too much to continue being miserable.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
Heather, You need to start a new thread before this one locks.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
