I just want you to know how much I feel a kindred spirit with you and my heart really hurts for you today. I have been there and done that almost exactly like you have and I KNOW how it hits so hard. I love the idea of lighting the candles for the paths that you and your STBX are on. The anniversary of the date that my X proposed is rapidly approaching and I think I'm going to borrow that idea and do the same thing. It is a lovely gesture, even if no one but you sees it.
I'm going to raise a glass to you tomorrow. You are a strong woman and your life is going to be so amazing in the future. It is hard to see it now, believe me I know! But, it will be.
Positive thoughts and prayers coming your way, Toots, with a nice little tail wag from Molly to boot.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
