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Time will tell. No psychic guessing.......


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I like a good horoscope. Johnathan Cainer in the UK is pretty good. OK, it could just be something that comforts me, but in times of great pain, I like a read. It's my little treat.

He suggests that someone who has taken so much from me soon will 'give some back'. I know they're vague, but, boy does this ring true!

Not that I'm telling everybody to start believing their horoscope, but our washing machine went boom today. Obviously, being a family of five, we need a new one. W asks 'who's paying for it', well 'both of us'. She follows up with 'because if I get a house with the kids, I'm gonna need a washing machine'! Yes Johnathan, she's really giving back!


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Ha ha. That is funny. Perhaps Jonathan meant that PPI claim you are just about to get a call about in 3...2...1...


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Huddy,

Jonathan Cainer is wicked GOOD! Pretty darn accurate in his readings. On point. Damn.

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I don't think she realises that it'll go into any settlement when the house is sold. I was OK though. Didn't make a performance. So, one minute she wants to consolidate debts, the next she's on her toes with the new washer.

WAW's really do defy logic.

PPI - yes, there is a number from Liverpool with an 0151 number which is really annoying at the moment. I just don't answer.


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A workmate was asking about my sitch this morning. He displayed exasperation that this was still continuing. He had told his W about me and she said I was 'a saint' for putting up with it.

Well, I'm not ready for sainthood yet, but I suppose the reason I keep going is for love. I wish my W would wake up from this terrible dream!


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We all wish that mate but we also know that won't happen. Not in the way we hope. Stick with the course. You'll be fine.


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Huddy, so true. They can not hear the voice of reason anymore. OW1 and OW2 have some of the traits that H always said he disliked.

All my traits he said he fell enough with is now the reason he wants a D. I've my independence, confidence, ability to get things done etc .


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Hi Wonka

Yeah, Johnathan is good. In his forecast for my sign, for the year, it said I would experience a bad year, with my love focus being really bad from March to September. Well, he wasn't far out with the start (a week), I hope he really can read the runes!

Hi NDY/Smoothy

I'm no adonis. But today is the first day back at work after 'beardoff' and I'm surprised how many people have commented on how young I look and since I lost the weight, how good I look. It's great to get compliments as it helps with my PMA and confidence. I'm also a bit reluctant to take it in as a lot of people know what my problem is at work, and they might just be being kind. The one person I want to say that however......you know the rest!

Walked home and W immediately came to me to ask what I had done with two letters of hers (notice the blame game, again), so in my most pleasant manner, I told her I didn't know. Notice on the calendar she has penciled in a L appointment for next Monday. She's never done that before, so I guess that's to try and put the wind up me. Won't work.

W is agitated with the kids again. I know she's tired, but what does she think she's going to do when I'm not here to share the burden?


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Originally Posted By: Huddy
Hi Wonka

Yeah, Johnathan is good. In his forecast for my sign, for the year, it said I would experience a bad year, with my love focus being really bad from March to September. Well, he wasn't far out with the start (a week), I hope he really can read the runes!

Hi NDY/Smoothy

I'm no adonis. But today is the first day back at work after 'beardoff' and I'm surprised how many people have commented on how young I look and since I lost the weight, how good I look. It's great to get compliments as it helps with my PMA and confidence. I'm also a bit reluctant to take it in as a lot of people know what my problem is at work, and they might just be being kind. The one person I want to say that however......you know the rest!

Walked home and W immediately came to me to ask what I had done with two letters of hers (notice the blame game, again), so in my most pleasant manner, I told her I didn't know. Notice on the calendar she has penciled in a L appointment for next Monday. She's never done that before, so I guess that's to try and put the wind up me. Won't work.

W is agitated with the kids again. I know she's tired, but what does she think she's going to do when I'm not here to share the burden?


Keep seeing this all over the boards. They have to figure that bit out on their own. We on the other hand just need to reach for a fresh smoothie.


Me:43 Her:42
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EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.
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