Well had a convo today with the stbxw, she just blames this all on me saying it's all my fault she's been unhappy for 6 years and only married me cause of our d, yet she used to tell me she wanted to be married to me badly before she got preg. I just don't get it. Is she really just unhappy or is she in a fog with on that she keeps denying. I don't get it can someone give me there thoughts "vets"
Did you read my first thread on WW's? You are comparing her to the way she used to be, and you are trying to make sense of it. She is not the same. She will rewrite history and blame you for everything. She was or is unhappy, okay? But she is a mess. She is in a fog,, yes, only worse.......she is controlled by her waywardness.
You have the power to make this a good day for yourself.
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Stbx really bothers me, she acts like life is so great, when we talk she's happy. I can't stand her at this point. Just wanna vent cheater liar the list goes on. Eventually she will see what she has lost and the tables will be turned. Sorry just venting
DNTWNT Sounds like my situation Was served papers last month. Wife only concerned with moving on. It is my fault that where we are. I can agree. But it is not my fault for where we are now. Her lawyer made settlement proposal, which is way off by what I see as fair. 2 year marriage, no debt going in, 70,000 dollar debt going out. And she wants a car that I owned before marriage. Yet she makes 4 times as much money as I do. It's forced me to work 7 days a week to survive. So it takes me 4 days or work to make what she does in 1 day. Something doesn't seem quite fair here.
