EA .. Is it ok to ask?????

[Glove]

Very first post. Feedback for others looks supportive

DR on the way. Separated 2 months. Divorce petition filed by WAW. Moving fast and I suspect EA. is it ok to ask her? If so, I would likely concede to the divorce. If not, I am willing to apply DR principles. Should this matter? Contact is minimal and brief. There is really no way for to see any positive changes.

Advice???

Married 16 years
Children x2

[Starsky309]

If you ask her, and she's not having an emotional affair, she will deny it.

And if you ask her, and she's having an emotional affair, she will deny it.

See the dilemma? People caught up in affairs lie -- PERIOD.

Best to gather independent intel on your own if this is indeed a deal breaker for you.


Starsky