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Bob,

You want to be careful not to appear to be sugary in your responses to W.

W's Original Email

Hi Bob, never mind. I need to come out to get some other things sometime next week. Is there a particular day next week that you could work at the office. Then my mom and I could get what I need for now without having to disrupt you? Please let me know as soon as possible so I can make plans. Thank you so very much. (W)

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Hi (W), I appreciate the heads-up. I will be in the office Tuesday through Thursday. It is thoughtful of you not wanting to disrupt me. You're welcome. Bob

Suggested Response

W, thanks for the heads up. I will be in the office Tuesday through Thursday. Just let me know which day works best for you. You might want to watch out for Bigfoot when you swing by--he's a bit shy. smile Have a good day. Bob

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Originally Posted By: Wonka
Bob,

You want to be careful not to appear to be sugary in your responses to W.

W's Original Email

Hi Bob, never mind. I need to come out to get some other things sometime next week. Is there a particular day next week that you could work at the office. Then my mom and I could get what I need for now without having to disrupt you? Please let me know as soon as possible so I can make plans. Thank you so very much. (W)

Bob's Draft

Hi (W), I appreciate the heads-up. I will be in the office Tuesday through Thursday. It is thoughtful of you not wanting to disrupt me. You're welcome. Bob

Suggested Response

W, thanks for the heads up. I will be in the office Tuesday through Thursday. Just let me know which day works best for you. You might want to watch out for Bigfoot when you swing by--he's a bit shy. smile Have a good day. Bob

Hi Wonka,

I agree with you. I don’t want to be too “sugary.” I’ll go with your suggested response. I’m not arguing W in any way, I’m standing up for myself by asking which day works best (I hadn’t thought of that!) and then some great humor at the end!

PP, I loved your humorous end, too! But I think I’ll go with Wonka’s because it’s not a continuation of the “bear” joke and it is a riot, too!

Thanks Dear Wonka for having by back!

*Hugs*

Bob


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Super quick follow-up: I sent Wonka’s suggested text now and my W’s phone was actually on. It got delivered immediately. Some may not be aware my W keeps her phone off for days at a time.


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
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Another quick note: Wouldn’t it be great if my W let me know the “Bigfoot” joke made her laugh? I have no expectations, but unless my W has turned into a complete alien from space, I’m sure it at least brought a smile to her face. I do remember that one of the things she fell in love with me about was my “great sense of humor.” It didn’t hurt that I am an awesome kisser, too. Ha! LOL


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Even if she doesn't let you know Bob, I'm sure you made her smile. Good work on the text.


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PigPen,

Thanks so much for the kind words and stopping by again. Your idea about dropping the extra sentence or two was perfect! cool

What would I without you?

P.S. I'm still at work, so I'm mostly checking on my sitch now. I'm sorry.

I'll catch up with you all later!

Bob


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Hi Bob. Good reply Your doing well. Take care. Rd

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Hi Bob. Good reply Your doing well. Take care. Rd

Hi Rd,

Thanks so very much for the encouragement! You always have my back.

Bob


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Hi Bob,

Glad to see that there is some communication between you and your W. I agree with the others - good work on the text message!

Sending lots of prayers and hugs your way!


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Hey Bob! Just make sure the bear doesn't get you too!

Hugs, bro
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