I just wanted to stop by and inform you that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have not forgotten about you! I haven’t been online too much lately and I’m trying to catch up on your situation.
Please keep a PMA, don’t give up and keep moving forward. I have your back mate.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
How is everything going? Hope your W is getting better, taking the edge away may be helpful for her to see what is really going on in her life.
Hope you and the kids are doing well, hanging in there.
My life is changing again, my D settlement was finalized yesterday. We had a long and painful meeting w/the Mediator, but we decided on every single detail.
I hope I can really and truly detach now. Follow my own path and decide what I will do next. I think it will be a good time to put life in perspective, job, security, money, get rid of some stuff, organize and take time to laugh a little bit.
My kids gave me a huge support yesterday, what shows that H is out but we still hold a family. This morning I had them checking on me to see if I was OK to go to work. Very sweet.
Time is what I need now, time to heal, time for myself, time to enjoy the years I have left beside my boys, time to forgive and forget and have a clean soul to start over.
About love... I may love one day, for now I want to stay away from any kind of R. It would be a disaster and a big mistake.
Well, hope you have a nice weekend with your kiddos, Love and hugs to you all, Pink
May the peace you seek find you and settle into your life as a replacement for what you have lost. It sounds like both your soul and family are in amazing hands.
Big hug to you,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
Thanks PP, my words are beautiful because I write to RD like we know each other.
I feel we have very similar lives since we are the ones holding all together for our kids, for our family. Besides having partners that are always crying and saying how miserable they are and yet they do not want us in their lives anymore.
Yes, the amazing hands is holding us tight right now, we are blessed that we have these hands to make us believe tomorrow will be a better day.
Life is a great prize and we need to make the most to honor what was given to us...
Hi lovely RD, I'm just dropping in to see how you are doing my friend. You've been all quiet these past few days I notice. Hopefully you have been doing some nice things over the weekend.
Let us know how you are getting along when you get chance....
T xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
I haven’t been on the board much this week, so I’m sorry if it seems like a life-time ago that I checked in with you.
Thank you so much for the extra support you have given me recently, it has helped so much. I love you like a brother.
What is new with you? Any fun GAL lately? I hope so!
Thinking about you and praying for you, too.
Your buddy,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
