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Hi Bob. What do you have scheduled for GAL this week? Anything fun?


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Bob,

I just wanted to tell you that your PMA is amazing. You seem to be a genuinely nice guy. Just keep being positive and don't pressure your wife. She seems to be afraid that your changes are only temporary. Prove her wrong. Trust me, things have a way of changing when you least expect it!


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Reading your thread, Bob. To give me some inspiration. Thank you for the support you have given me.


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Bob... I was pleasantly surprised that your W was so open and honest with you! That is definitely a step in the right direction. I am very happy for you, but please continue to maintain no expectations and continue your new life as usual.


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Hello All,

I did not get a chance to log in last night – super busy. Today, overwhelmed a bit at work.

I just wanted you to know I’m okay and have not heard back from my W.

Maybe (big maybe) later tonight I can catch up on some other situations.

I promise I have not forgotten about my DB Family and hope to reply to your posts and check in on you soon.

No Expectations!!!

Love, Bob


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Hi Bob

No worries. Good to see you're doing OK.


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Bob - glad to hear you are doing ok. The no expectations is tough. But, you have an amazing PMA and whenever I need a boost, love coming to your thread.


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Thanks for checking in Bob, as I was about to post a "wondering where Bob is post"

I'm glad all is well, except busy and that you are remembering no expectations.

Your DB family cares about you tremendously!

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Good to hear from you Bob, was wondering how you were doing as well.

Keep rocking!


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Originally Posted By: Cadet
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Thanks Cadet...xo. Now back to Bob's regularly scheduled programming. grin

Yea - I saw your smoke signal...... grin grin grin

LOL!!!! You 2 crack me up! cool


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No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15
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