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Probably vindictive to try and get a response from you. Inore, have a good day instead!


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Dear Smothy,

Days like that are so hard, think you should do something nice for yourself and just hang tight. Don't reply, probably wanting you to get snappy and don't give him that.

Thinking of you!


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I have booked my trip to India today.

I had a dream last night and the last thing imprinted on my mind was a image (like a photograph) on my mind of H, OW and her child and it didn't hurt as much as it would of only a few days ago.

How fast the D is speeding on. My IC has cancelled my appointment for tomorrow, which we originally made due to the anniversary date. I have an appointment for DB coach on Saturday. Time to jump off the rollercoaster and let go of the rope.


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I am stronger! I have just heard 'Fix you -Coldplay' on the radio. This would had have me blubbering like a girl two days ago.

Two days ago, I was listening to 'nothing compare to you' and it left me in a crying mess!


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Good for you Smothy, hope the trip to India is awesome.


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Nothing compared to you leaves everyone in a blubbering mess, even when the M is in good condition! Sinead must make all her money on the wedding circuit, just like that guy (forgot his name) who has just done 'All of Me' - it's a must at a wedding.


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Originally Posted By: Smothy
It' would be our anniversary tomorrow, so I get an email TODAY, telling me the date the decree nisi will be read in court. Signed H x.

Bad timing, deliberate sending of email?


Please can someone give me some feedback on this, I am having a down moment and am hurting H name begins with E and I reread this and it says

Hi Smothy, ( as above) Ex

Is he saying he is now my ex, his initial plus x. I know major mind reading, I am feeling he is being overly cruel if it is Ex


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Originally Posted By: Smothy
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It' would be our anniversary tomorrow, so I get an email TODAY, telling me the date the decree nisi will be read in court. Signed H x.

Bad timing, deliberate sending of email?


Please can someone give me some feedback on this, I am having a down moment and am hurting H name begins with E and I reread this and it says

Hi Smothy, ( as above) Ex

Is he saying he is now my ex, his initial plus x. I know major mind reading, I am feeling he is being overly cruel if it is Ex

Ok, did he ever sign emails with a kiss? Could be habit.
Or he could be saying he considers himself your ex
Or it could be a typo
Something else.

But what difference does it make? How does knowing help you detach? Let it go.


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NDY, you at right. It shouldn't matter. I have let it go. I was dreading this morning, but feeling strangely calm. I woke up several times in the night and kept repeating the 'Serentiy Prayer' .

Today will just be another day where I get stronger!


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Hey, Pyrite, how are you? I haven't seen you for a while :-)


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