Put one foot in front of the other

[Bob723]

Hi Eirinn,

You should be proud of yourself, I am!

I'll say a special prayer tonight for you and your situation.

Please get as much rest as you can.

(((((Eirinn)))))

Regards,

Bob

[Cherry]

I echo what Bob says- be proud of yourself. But also go easy on you too. You need to get yourself better. He's still a dad and has responsibilities. Hope you start to feel better soon.
I'm really proud of how your handling this! Especially while being sick

[Elly4]

Thanks guys. I'm trying to take care of myself and stand up for myself too. He continued to bring up job hunting every night until I confronted him nicely, and said, "I have been getting resumes out to the schools, but with the pneumonia right now I think it's more important to take care of our S and myself so that I can get better quicker. At the moment, I am not in good enough shape to do interviews if they call."

He agreed and said we should work on them this weekend. "If I'm feeling better, sure thing." Haven't heard anything since.

[Elly4]

So, I had to go into my H's room to get a book that my S threw under the door. Both of us has said it's okay to go in each other's room when we're not home. He moved the bed and set up a yoga area. I so want to ask him about it, just because I'm curious, but I know I shouldn't.

It stinks because 7 months ago, I could have asked him anything.

On the plus side, we have two full couches, and he sat down on my couch today with me and talked. He hasn't sat that close to me since January. Of course then my S says, "Daddy why are you sitting on Mommy's couch?" I quickly replied because we share in this house.

[Zephyr]

I am hoping you are feeling better. Sending extra prayer you way!

[Elly4]

Thank you so much, Zephyr! I can always use an extra prayer.

So, my H went hiking yesterday for five hours and sent me seven photos and one video of his trip. It's so hard, because I know if I show anything more than casual interest in him, he will back peddle faster than I can run.

I am actually having a harder time being detached when he shows me some inklings that dbing is working. I just come on here when I'm weakening.

[Winhamn]

So, my H went hiking yesterday for five hours and sent me seven photos and one video of his trip. It's so hard, because I know if I show anything more than casual interest in him, he will back peddle faster than I can run.

I am actually having a harder time being detached when he shows me some inklings that dbing is working. I just come on here when I'm weakening.

It's so very confusing, isn't it?

I agree that it's even harder to detach if they pursue in any way shape or form.

[Bob723]

Thanks guys. I'm trying to take care of myself and stand up for myself too. He continued to bring up job hunting every night until I confronted him nicely, and said, "I have been getting resumes out to the schools, but with the pneumonia right now I think it's more important to take care of our S and myself so that I can get better quicker. At the moment, I am not in good enough shape to do interviews if they call."

Hello Eirinn,

How are you feeling now? I like that fact that you are standing up for yourself.

I've been very busy today at work, and finally logged in about 15 minutes ago.

I read and replied to your encouraging post in my thread. It was very sweet.

Take care, please!

{{{Eirinn}}}

[Elly4]

Yes Winhamm, it is extremely confusing! Thanks for letting me know I'm not the only one who has a hard time with this.

[Elly4]

Bob, thanks for asking! I am feeling better. Still coughing but that's expected.

I hope your day is great.