Holding On

[HeavyD]

Old thread -

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...538#Post2561538

[HeavyD]

And welcome to my new thread

I don't feel optomistic or pessimistic = just holding on and trudging forward = thus the new subject post name

[Wonka]

Wonka

W does NOT have a lawyer. I have a lawyer representing me.

My L sent her some letters and she responded herself - no letterhead. My lawyer said if she had one, they would have contacted him. So, again no lawyer for her.

She does have someone giving her legal advice because the letter she responded with had some legal jargon in it and listed some cases as precedent.

I am unsure why she does not have one. Not my problem.

Thanks for clearing this up for all of us here. Yeah, not your problem if your W doesn't have a L.

Keep on keeping on your own path.

[HeavyD]

Wonka

I have to admit I weary at this point. This chit just seems to go on forever while I just seem to circle the drain. I just feel tired. Did it ever feel that way to you?

Enduring such BS is just well exhausting. Progress is measured in cetimeters if it's considered progress at all. Then the philosophical game of progress for whose benefit - yours of course but the reason we are all here is to try and save our MARRAIGES. Endless patience and endurance are required so that it feels like a big circular game.

My primitive brain just wants to twerk her nose, my evolved brain screams silently WTF is wrong with you? Meanwhile I play the game of non pursuit and detachment and I sue you while you cheat on me.

Tell me about your MLC - did this come before during or after Mrs. Wonka decided to split? How did you know you were in MLC? How long did you stay there? Are you out of it now? Details please... Enquiring minds....

[Wonka]

Wonka

I have to admit I weary at this point. This chit just seems to go on forever while I just seem to circle the drain. I just feel tired. Did it ever feel that way to you? Oh..hell yeah!!! I had moments of wanting to throw in the towel...too many to count.

Enduring such BS is just well exhausting. Progress is measured in cetimeters if it's considered progress at all. Then the philosophical game of progress for whose benefit - yours of course but the reason we are all here is to try and save our MARRAIGES. Endless patience and endurance are required so that it feels like a big circular game. Because all of this is emotionally draining for the LBS, it is vital that GAL be a part of your work-life balance.

My primitive brain just wants to twerk her nose, my evolved brain screams silently WTF is wrong with you? Meanwhile I play the game of non pursuit and detachment and I sue you while you cheat on me. Haaa...nice way of putting things in perspective.

Tell me about your MLC - did this come before during or after Mrs. Wonka decided to split? How did you know you were in MLC? How long did you stay there? Are you out of it now? Details please... Enquiring minds.... I am going to ask our friend, Cadet, to see if he can dig up and post the first thread of my MLC journey here (A Voyage into the MLC Mind). It is all in there.

[Cadet]

I am going to ask our friend, Cadet, to see if he can dig up and post the first thread of my MLC journey here (A Voyage into the MLC Mind). It is all in there.

Here are all the topics you have created my dear Wonka.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&view=started&id=6672

I hope it has not been purged as it only goes back to 2006.

[Wonka]

Dang it! All of it....sheesh. Don't you go around embarrassing me now, Cadet.

[Wonka]

Pay no attention to Cadet, Heavy. This link is the one you want to read as it addresses my own MLC journey: A Voyage Into the MLC Mind

[pilot]

Dang it! All of it....sheesh. Don't you go around embarrassing me now, Cadet.

Thats nothing. The real treat for me was reading Sandi's posts from when she first got here. I gotta say it was really really strange after being so used to Sandi having all the answers and reading her first posts when she was as uninformed and clumsy as the rest of us

[HeavyD]

I co host my D6 girl scouts troop held every other week at her school. There are about 25 girls so it keeps the teachers pretty busy.

I was doing my thing and I looked up and WW walked in with our S9. Our son stays at after school programs until we pick him up 4 or 5.

She came in, sat down, and played there with her phone. She was there for about 45 minutes for the rest of the class. WTH.
I nodded hello, and then just focused on my D6. We were making little projects and just having fun. My S9 wanted to get in on the projects so I start with him too.

After class, I gather up the kids gear, give them both big hugs and kisses and say I love you and will see you Friday. I nodded goodbye at WW and then left. I did not turn around, just calmly left and walked to my car and drove off.

This just keeps getting weirder by the minute. This must be her version of our new happy family....