Hey Rick, if you weren't a bit anxious about this I'd be concerned. When you've been through the pain of divorce twice it is absolutely natural to be thinking about this. I have a co-worker who has been married three times...he's been with his present wife over 25 years now. It can be done! As has been said, if you've done the work that's a huge step towards success.
Thank you all for your guidance. I am married. The mayor of our town did the ceremony. I was pretty nervous and so was my honey. We are very happy. And no second guesses from me. It is the right thing for me. It feels sooooo good. Onwards my friends
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Thank u all. We are very happy. I will not forget how I got here, ever. I will continue to share my journey with all of you cause I will always need your input.. I got tools that I didnt have before and all of u have tool boxes that I will need to borrow at times. So I will keep coming here for ur advice. It has been a very painful experience forced to divorce. I dont wish it on anyone. Not even my enemy.
I am so scared of making past mistakes. But I dont want to walk on eggshells either. But today Im happy very happy.
I trully love being a husband.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Things are pretty good. Only thing is finances at the moment. Need some dental work. iy insurance covers a lot but after all is said and done I will have to pay some 3700$. Need a new car and have some repair around the house. I have the cash saved for the car. My Honda has 262k miles. Still runs good. I will drive it till the wheels fall off.it needs front sensors for the SRS. Also need furniture and change the carpet on the 2nd floor. No rush on those.
Married life is going well. W and her daughter who will b 18 this month are always at it. im surrounded by females. At work the majority are females. Very interesting how females operate yet stressful lol.
Need to get back to working out. Last summer I got hit with planter fasciitis. Hurts like hell still.
Thats it for now. Spending the day with my D. Making empanadas and jerk ribs on the grill
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
