My turn with the boys is over now. We had a good time visiting my mum - well as good a time as can be expected visiting someone who is 85. We went out to the garden centre, had a nice lunch a mucked about with garden trolleys and big plant pots etc.
Today I drove down to the station, left the car in the car and texted WW where it was. My train was late and while I was leaning up against a post outside the station she walked past right in front of me.
We ignored each other.
Old I did just that at a funeral.
He could have crossed the divide same as you, he didn't just as she didn't.
Good work, she means nothing. I think that's good. Flipping the bird would mean you cared, cold who gives a rats a$$ you mean nothing and I cannot be bothered to waste my time is good.
Throws old a treat, that's good. Practice mate.
I don't even wave when I think I see his car or I even know it's his car. He doesn't exist. His family told me I didn't so there wish is granted.
Only recently I accidentally waved to a bus to what I thought was a driver I knew. Whoopy it was h! Poop.... But who cares.
I suspect he knew it wasn't him I waved to.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I haven't quite got there yet. You see those pictures of fake vs real smiles?
You can guess.
I have the look between the eyebrows thing to a fine art form. Different to Ceroc when I am happy to smile, laugh, have fun with the dance and enjoy the company.
H mocks all that because he won't dance.
My dad (93) said if a man can't or won't dance he is useless as a lover. My dad is twinkle toes personified. He tells me it took him years to learn but he was glad he did as it made mum very happy. I did not ask but he smiles wistfully and hums a happy tune.
WW is clearly guilty and ashamed otherwise she would acknowledge you, she knows your boundary and it does not suit her purpose. I believe WW has (temporarily depending on OD) lost the best R she ever had and it will not sit well with WW. Her happy dream of cheesecake with cream has gone. The OM is no cheese.
OD is becoming a man only a fool can leave with great GAL, boundaries and PMA.
Good for you OD. It is a bitter pill for WW to swallow.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 04/05/1502:57 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
I forgot to mention but I've always been known by WW by my initials e.g. OD but after after the kerfuffle the other day I sent WW a text saying I don't want you to call me OD again. My name is Old to you now.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Hi Old Dog , I think we all have those thoughts. It would be so much easier to reconcile than carry on down this road of seeming heartbreak and turmoil but I think the way to look at it could be , everything happens for a reason. Our WAS felt that happiness was elsewhere and they made their choices. There is small comfort that most relationships born this way don't last and WAS will possibly have regrets but it's also an opportunity for the LBS to grow. If we don't take some positives from what's happened to us we are just compounding the hurt we feel. From where we where on BD , things have to get better. No one knows what's around the next corner of life and this time next year Old Dog could be home stuffing himself with Easter eggs.
Happy Easter, OD. Holidays are tough, that's for sure, but you can still tuck into the eggs! I see Cadbury has created a furore over the new cream eggs - not the same apparently. I'm not a fan myself but I saw lots of them in the windows around London so methinks they must be popular there?
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
