Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 11 1 2 3 4 10 11
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
Dude, STOP!!!!!!

Not only did SHE fire YOU from being her H, but dang!!!! Show some self-respect!!! She's been eating CAKE for months and you're encouraging it. I thought you wanted things to change?


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
O
Old Dog Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
O
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
Sigh. Yes, I will stop.

That's it now. It's me me me (and the boys) from now on.

I'm trying to buy a convertible Merc if I can get the financials sorted. I've never had a decent car.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 8,855
V
Member
Offline
Member
V
Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 8,855
OD

Choose RED!

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
O
Old Dog Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
O
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
I'm glad she didn't stay now. I had a good time watching Looper with the boys. We have a laugh about things, like singing dogs in YouTube. I am worried about being a mate rather than a dad to them though. WW called them mate sometimes: I have never done that.

I just heard her cone back to pick something up before she goes to work for the last time. My heart jumped and I felt anxious hoping she wouldn't come in the bedroom.

What a terrible state of affairs (in more ways than one) to be in. I feel so sad that this has happened, ashamed for my part in it and angry that she refused to get help to save our marriage.

----------

I would if I could V the one I've got my eye on is a sort of silver grey. What's appealing is that it runs on LPG.

There are far too many silver cars around in my opinion.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 5,301
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 5,301
Hi OD, I would hold firm on the W front. No softening and inviting her to stay over. She has made her choices recently, and you have agreed a way forward that protects yourself from wayward behaviour. Are you thinking that asking her to stay would start to rebuild something between you? Because with OM in the picture it's pointless - that just isn't going to happen right now. Though in time.....who knows?

Sounds exciting about the car OD. I don't mind silver myself.....particularly in a Mercedes

:-)


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
O
Old Dog Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
O
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
I didn't see my offer as softening at all and I do intend to be more hard nosed about this from now on.

I was just being kind. It's what I would have said to any friend. Mind you she's not my friend any longer, so perhaps I shouldn't have. I certainly wasn't thinking it would affect her thinking in any way.

Last edited by Old Dog; 04/02/15 09:15 PM.

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
O
Old Dog Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
O
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
My turn with the boys is over now. We had a good time visiting my mum - well as good a time as can be expected visiting someone who is 85. We went out to the garden centre, had a nice lunch a mucked about with garden trolleys and big plant pots etc.

Today I drove down to the station, left the car in the car and texted WW where it was. My train was late and while I was leaning up against a post outside the station she walked past right in front of me.

We ignored each other.

Last edited by Old Dog; 04/04/15 09:55 PM.

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
Depressing. Sorry.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
O
Old Dog Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
O
Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 1,106
It's better than what I wanted to say though. :-)


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Apr 2014
Posts: 3,500
Nice restraint. wink


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Page 2 of 11 1 2 3 4 10 11

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard