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Sandi2 - Been reading all of your stuff and getting some great insight. If you get a chance, let me know what you think.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...254#Post2769254

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I'm brand new & I can see I really need Sandi already because I have broken every single rule. And several times each. Except occasionally pulling off # 19. Oh Geez!

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Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally 34 rules also known as DB rules, from MWD, Sandi would post these as Sandi's list.



2. ...Then don't try to hang on to your spouse through conversation.....instead, you say good-bye first.



Sandi,

Thanks for the list! I have been trying to stick to all of the items as much as possible. Do you have any tips for how to end conversations first, but in a loving way? I go into a bit more detail in my latest post, but could use any advice that you could give. Thank you!!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2776429#Post2776429


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Reading for a while but just approved to post today. Plan to share my story later today but looking for advice now related to Sandi’s rules. Any advice for avoiding the R talk with wife when you are sure she is planning to bring it up..? And it likely isn’t good? I’m trying to buy time so I don’t want to get involved in a R talk that will likely go south. Thanks


Edit - Walk out of the room if you don't want to talk. - Cadet


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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2777925#Post2777925

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