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Well, onto thread number seven for Toots. Here's a link to my old one.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2548768&page=1

Quick recap:

BD1 - Mar 2014, EA discovered

BD2 - July 2014, H admits PA. I move to parents 2 hrs away

Jul-Sep 2014 - lots of talking with H, A continues, he's 'confused.'

Oct-Feb 2014 - Virtually NC. I rent a flat, build up my own life, no idea of A status.

Feb 2015 - H made redundant. Wants to sell our house. Says our R is over, then backtracks. OW back in the country, but H is 'dating' others ATM.

Mar 2015 - Agree to sell house, formalise S and divide assets. H then says he wants us to D. I tell him I love him and D isn't what I want. He's thinking about things.

Thanks to you all for your kind support and positive feedback. This forum makes a world of difference during the darker times.


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Sotto #2548788 03/18/15 04:54 PM
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Toots

I think whilst you are Iamthecheese

Gan is Iamthefondue

V is inapickle

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


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LOL


Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3
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. . . and I'm the Batman. cool


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
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Originally Posted By: Starsky309
. . . and I'm the Batman. cool

But Batman is not a SUPERHERO!

I heard that today on ESPN! grin grin


Me-70, D37,S36
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...and I am the Wonder Woman! grin

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Wonka #2548849 03/18/15 07:14 PM
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I am the walrus...
.... Although I've shaved and lost some weight now..


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
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I would like to be Wonder Woman but I am more a Woman that Wonder, so I will be Cinderella and have some hope that one day a Gorgeous Prince will come looking for me. (or I will just clean the house forever).


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S22,19 and 16
D:8/5/2015



Pink17 #2548874 03/18/15 07:56 PM
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Have you guys been having a party on my thread while I was out yoga galing?! Doh - missed my own party!


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Sotto #2548880 03/18/15 08:10 PM
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Party???

Nooooo...... (Squirrels away buffet tray and punch bowl....)


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
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