Thanks swabby. It was very unusual for me. I remember actually getting stressed out in the past before I would go to these things. This time I was excited. I have never actually just sat down and started talking to people I did not know before. How are things with you?
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
LOL! I know V. But now my wife has started GAL. She is exercising, going tanning, walking and avoiding being around me. It is weird! LOL! I am glad she is doing these things for herself though. Probably make her feel better about herself.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Thank you V! I have felt really great lately. I don't wake up dwelling on my situation. I don't stress about what might happen or what can I do to change things. I have been more relaxed and positive about alot of things lately. I did learn a big thing a from my trip. I learned that no matter what happens, I will be OK! I am learning new things about myself and getting a confidence I did not have before. I would like to start working on some of my other issues that has caused problems in our marriage in the past, but don't know where to start?
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
I hear you swabby! I have found I am having way more up days than down days anymore. This morning I felt a little down, I just started smiling and singing and it felt really good! Got myself out of my down mood real quick! The weather getting nicer here is helping also. I am able to get out with the kids more. Going to play baseball with the kids today. Do some work around the house. Wife said she is going to see one of her girlfriends today for a bit and than has an appointment. I just said "okay".
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
I have a question for the vets! I have been doing pretty good at detaching lately. When I interact with W it is always like a friendly neighbor. I also have been watching alot of basketball in the living room lately and not paying much attention to what she is doing. I noticed lately that she has been letting me know that she is going to this place and going to see this person and than yesterday she said she had an appointment today. I could be wrong, but it seems like she is trying to get me to start asking what she is up to. I have acknowledged her when she talks to me and I say okay. But I don't have much of a conversation about it. This afternoon she was on a cleaning spree and she made about a million trips by the living room throwing things away. Is this normal behavior?
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
