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I've changed my name from ImDumb to burger. I'm still hanging in there.

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Spouse with ADHD is addicted to video Game and in EA. Don't know if it has become PA.


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Hoping D21 comes home after work. Very lonely always being by myself every evening while W hides in the other room to play video games. Unfortunately I can't do GAL activities every night.


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I have that problem, Burger. We go to our separate places after my son goes to bed. I can't GAL as much due to location and my son. Just find something that you like to do at home. Read, do a puzzle, build something, watch tv...


M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
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Thank-you for the note Eirinn. I’m slowly getting interest back in my hobbies.

W was in a better mood this morning. I got a really long hug from her. It’s kind of like she has forgiven me for confronting her about sending naked pictures to people on the Internet. That sentence makes me shake my head.


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Originally Posted By: Burger
It’s kind of like she has forgiven me for confronting her about sending naked pictures to people on the Internet. That sentence makes me shake my head.


Me too.


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
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Originally Posted By: Starsky309

Me too.

Starsky,

Do you forgive me for confronting her? Or are you shaking your head too? or both?


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Shaking my head at the sheer dysfunction of the entire thought process of waywards. crazy


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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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Originally Posted By: Burger
I've changed my name from ImDumb to burger. I'm still hanging in there.

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Quick summary:
Spouse with ADHD is addicted to video Game and in EA. Don't know if it has become PA.


It doesn't take long to go from EA to PA. My lady will however string someone along forever and do an EA on them while just bilking them for money and time. All in the while having compartamentalized them from any true sex activities.

However a standard issue woman, will not usually EA with a guy they can't see themselves doing those things with.

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I 'think' it may not have become PA at this point because the OM lives out of state, and everything is in that online fantasy world where everything is perfect.


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Burger, I am also dealing with the online fantasy world with my wife. Mine has gone so far as to pretend she is someone else at times. It is sad! I am also in separate bedrooms. I am just waiting for that guy from the show on MTV called Catfish to come knocking on my door with some guy looking for this woman he has been talking to!! LOL!! It is not really funny, it is really sad. But I think I would invite them in and sit down with some popcorn and watch the show!!! Let her try to lie her way out of that one. I have no proof of anything, but I have found things that make me believe this stuff is going on.


Me:44
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Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"

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