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Originally Posted By: labug

I'm glad it's not you want to jump him. That wasn't even on my list of possibilities. eek


Four months is a long time. A really long time. Sigh.....I don't know how people go for years on end.



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rpp, I went 8 years. I decided that I didn't want to bring home crazy men to my kids and chose to stay celibate until I decided I didn't want to stay that way anymore. My kids were way younger than yours, though. If they were the ages they are now? I'd have probably made myself available, if you know what I mean. But I wouldn't have and still won't consider ex sex. Mr. Wonderful doesn't flirt like your H does. I mean he does, but it's not specific and it's done in a humor situation that is never directed at me personally. I remember him doing it a few times when we were separated and I called him on it. I told him that he knew I wanted to reconcile and that his innuendos confused me. From that point forward, he toed the line and opted not to add to any more confusion than I already felt. I've appreciated that.

I'll tell you that I got so busy finding my groove that I didn't really miss it. Sure, I had my hormone driven moments on and off. But that desire wasn't an on switch that drove me crazy. I scratched that itch and now I'm waiting for the right person to come along. He will.

For me it boiled down to one simple thought: why would I want to have sex with someone who 1) didn't want me; and 2) didn't like me?


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Betsey would you stop being so sensible please? You are doing nothing for my love life.

Oh.....wait.....I don't have a love life......sigh.....again



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You can have a sex life without a love life. Jus sayin'


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Originally Posted By: labug
You can have a sex life without a love life. Jus sayin'


Check! Way ahead of you, bug



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Originally Posted By: labug
You can have a sex life without a love life. Jus sayin'


Check! Way ahead of you, bug


Are you guys talking about The Contest from Seinfeld??!! blush

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Exactly! (And that's what ended my 8 year spell, BTW.) No love involved, other than the love I have for myself when I kicked his ass to the curb. grin


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Wonka you know I love me some Seinfeld. And you know that Elaine did not do well in that contest.



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Just sitting here with a bowl of popcorn enjoying the conversation...........;)

Do we need to start a DB forum "contest" ?


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Exactly! (And that's what ended my 8 year spell, BTW.) No love involved, other than the love I have for myself when I kicked his ass to the curb. grin


Exactly! Exactly!

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