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So this morning I get this email from her about OM and she asked for me again to contact his command. I said here is his commands number and from now on leave me out of all of this. If you need me for something important I understand but that is it. Have a great day.


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"Asked and answered, Your Honor."

"Sustained."

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Hi Rysin

Sounds like you handled things well with your W. I would just ignore any further requests about the NC thing with OM's command. That's his and her problem, and if he didn't want to get in trouble with his employer, he should have thought about that sooner shouldn't he? Not your problem my friend.

Now....what lovely things does your life have in store going forwards?


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Hi Rysin

. . . I would just ignore any further requests about the NC thing with OM's command. That's his and her problem, and if he didn't want to get in trouble with his employer, he should have thought about that sooner shouldn't he? Not your problem my friend.



Agree 100% with this ^^^.


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well today i competed in a Master Fitness Competition, and tonight going to a bourbon and cigar tasting. Sunday i have a kings of leon Concert to go to. All of this while finishing up the final week of my college for spring. so super packed! I
do know one thing, i am going to just do me for quite some time and enjoy myself. I really need to rediscover myself considering i lost track of who the individual Rysin was. But i will find him once again. thank you all lets just see what fate has for me in the future.

But on another topic I just recieved another email from W that was sent to OM's command. She actually sent them an email saying that the NC should be dropped and i supported this. and that things are out of control and someones career should not be ruined over this. i did not reply, but all in all i cannot believe she sent that email. I am officially letting things go.

one final thought, this morning i was doing my 2 mile run, i was about half way through the run and i can't explain what happened to me but i was feeling tired and ready for it to be over and the next minute i just started to smile, i realized i was going to be ok, that invigorated me and i started to run faster and faster. the harder i pushed the more i smiled, good days are def. ahead let hope for minimal setbacks. thank you everyone for all that you have done for me!


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whistle whistle whistle whistle


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correction I have already let things go but i am offically stunned she did that, i dont see how it helps them. but that is neither here nor there. I am glad i have decided to focus on me and give this up to the lord. I see fireworks in the future. wish me luck on everything guys i know i am strong enough for this. And wish me luck tonight with this bourbon and cigar tasking gonna be fun.

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I myself am enjoying a nice Saison First Harvest 2011, by Oliva -- and a couple of glasses of cab! Enjoy, and by all means try the Woodford Reserve or Knob Creek if they are offered!!


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Oh yeah sure will.


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i can't explain what happened to me but i was feeling tired and ready for it to be over and the next minute i just started to smile, i realized i was going to be ok, that invigorated me and i started to run faster and faster. the harder i pushed the more i smiled, good days are def. ahead let hope for minimal setbacks.

RysinMn,

You are in a good place. Detachment feels damned good, doesn't it.

Enjoying a nice bottle of Quadrupel Trappist Ale myself. If someone offers a nice Partagas 6-8-6, please indulge on behalf of me and my brother Starsky. Smoke 'em if you've got 'em.

Not all unexpected change is bad, ya know.

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