I would tell her "you are more than welcome to stay here but in doing so please know I will NOT leave and you will be respectful of my boundaries while here"
Like no OM here, no calling/texting OM in front of me.
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I would tell her "you are more than welcome to stay here but in doing so please know I will NOT leave and you will be respectful of my boundaries while here"
Like no OM here, no calling/texting OM in front of me.
you guys were right up my alley on thinking, i should not have to leave my house for her to spend time with our friend. I was thinking of maybe actually staying someplace a day or two and staying home the other days. I know it would help me but I don't know?
I agree with DLS - your W moved out. She doesn't get to 'move back in' for a holiday because she wants to spend some time with her friend. If she wants to do some stuff with friend, they can meet up and do stuff...
I would just let her know - No, that doesn't work for me W....
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I agree with DLS - your W moved out. She doesn't get to 'move back in' for a holiday because she wants to spend some time with her friend. If she wants to do some stuff with friend, they can meet up and do stuff...
I would just let her know - No, that doesn't work for me W....
Thanks. She would be using our member during that interaction and he's supposed to be a good boy and maintain the facade.
ok I appreciate the vote of confidence, Though I decided to let her go and find myself. I find it hard still at times to say no. Knowing she is just going to get pissy with me, and get more angry! Like a vicious circle.
