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So yesterday was an adventure. I met my W at Starbucks. I said exactly what I planed to say maybe a few extra words but all in all I got the message across. She sat and listened. As I stood up to leave she asked me if I was willing to write a letter to OM's command requesting to drop the NC. I said W I am not going to do anything for or against this marriage, and I am going to look forward for me.

She said well if you are serious about moving on this is what I need from you. And then she says. "just because you say it's over doesn't mean it's over. We still need to be amicable to one another. I responded with "I need space and quietness at the moment and I would appreciate if you respected that.

How did I do?


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You did great!!!

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Originally Posted By: RysinMn
So yesterday was an adventure. I met my W at Starbucks. I said exactly what I planed to say maybe a few extra words but all in all I got the message across. She sat and listened. As I stood up to leave she asked me if I was willing to write a letter to OM's command requesting to drop the NC.



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Originally Posted By: RysinMn
So yesterday was an adventure. I met my W at Starbucks. I said exactly what I planed to say maybe a few extra words but all in all I got the message across. She sat and listened. As I stood up to leave she asked me if I was willing to write a letter to OM's command requesting to drop the NC. I said W I am not going to do anything for or against this marriage, and I am going to look forward for me.

She said well if you are serious about moving on this is what I need from you. And then she says. "just because you say it's over doesn't mean it's over. We still need to be amicable to one another. I responded with "I need space and quietness at the moment and I would appreciate if you respected that.

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Right! She didn't want you to be the one to dump her. Now you see how they are. You were the fallback guy, her main supporter. Now you are going to remove your foundation so she can see how she is on her own.

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Good job, Rysin. smile


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