P.S. If you DON'T invite a friend (and you SHOULD), still carry out this very.same.plan.
If you feel that including the "you might want to wrap up your visit by then" caveat is a little too cold, then say something like: "Yeah, no problem. But I have a friend coming over at x p.m. What time are you thinking of stopping by?"
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
Ok so this is what I said. Since she doesn't want to see me. I said, "I am perfectly fine with you seeing the dogs in fact they really need some extended time with you. I said, what were thinking 5-7. Anything after 745 is not good I have plans at the house. I said if you want more time you are more than welcome to come earlier. She then asked about 3-6 I said sounds perfect. NOW--- MY PLAN. I cleaned the back yard up really nice today, so gonna set it up lIke a party kinda, and I'm cleaning the house really good tonight. Really get the house looking and smelling good. Show her I am not just pining. And then I hung a huge oklahoma sooner flag on our bedroom wall lol. What do you think.
What do I think? I think you better be inviting some friends over! Sounds to me like you have a perfect excuse to get some serious GAL-partying in the works!!!
As for texts? Remember: shorter/less information is sweeter.
But I'd rather talk about an impromptu party! So who's on the guest list??
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
I am actually having one lol. A guy I met playing pool just went through D! And a few other people. yeah I figured I was a bit long winded with the text. Dangit lol. But I still think I have a good plan. And I'm gonna leave a little rack of lamb in the fridge. Her favorite and I never made it for her. Don't ask why!
you know i dont feel horrible when i GAL its just hard to GAL when i have already done so much, always been a adrenaline junky so all the fun crazy wild things we did together. now i am stuck with the fufu stuff. Not knocking it but still fufu. I am excited to learn salsa though, and glad for cooking.
(Remember, too, it will likely perplex your W that you're doing - alone/again - all the things you two did once only together. And that's not a BAD thing. )
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
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