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Sounding strong Pink No contact a good idea at the moment, you need time to yourself. Take care. Rd

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Hi Pink. Hope all ok with you. Thinking of you today when I was driving home in the snow !!!!!!!!! Take care. Rd

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Dearest Pink

Not long now until H goes abroad. Keep smiling and think dance and song.

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So, I was just checking my bank account and found out that there is a charge for a Embassy Suites Hotel. Called and my H is there with his affair. I feel like going there and finishing this stupid situation that he is doing.

I am so offended, he is doing this all under my nose and I am just nice and pretending that nothing is happening.

If anyone has an opinion, maybe it can change my mind.

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Mmmmm your personal account or the joint one?

That's tough.


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It's the joint account. That's our family account. H is busy w/ the bit** and he does not have time to change anything, to clean his situation with me.

I want to go there and meet with this woman and stop this big party that is right under my nose. I just don't think I need to leave it is so easy for him.

He is going too far... no respect what so ever.

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I would open a new one. A personal one for you.

That he cannot access and use joint one for joint bills only.


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(((Pink)))

sorry that your H is so disrespectful.

If you havent then i think you need to sort out your own bank account. Does H have his own account?

You've only got a few days until he goes away and then you can use that time to figure out your exact plan. Its rubbish but careful considered steps is probably better than a reaction at this point.


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Sorry Pink frown nothing really to add over what Jim & Gg said, I'm still running on our joint account at the mo but in my case its connected to waiting for the bank to get a high enough od sorted out on an account in my name before I tx everything over.

Hang in there (((Pink)))


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Hi Pink. Always on your side but are you sure that H is with OW ? If you are I am so sorry that he feels he can act this way ? It's total disrespect and you don't deserve it I would not go down there if you know OW is there What will you achieve?

Give yourself time and think about what you are going to do.

Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. Take extra care. Rd

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