So I am in the middle of another blizzard right now. It is one thing to be scared thinking about how I can do this alone, but the worst is trying to accept that my H no longer cares whether or not I can do this alone.
Me 44; H 48 no kids together; H has D24, D19 M 14; T 18 DB 12/21/14 living together (for now)
You can do it June. Stay safe and warm. Your H may not care, but you have people in your life who do. Give them your love and attention -- they are the ones that deserve it -- and don't give a toot about your H, who doesn't. Bundle up, watch a comedy, read a book, call a friend, but don't waste a second mulling about what your H thinks. That's a depressing dead-end road. Fantasize about your future instead.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
You can do it June. Stay safe and warm. Your H may not care, but you have people in your life who do. Give them your love and attention -- they are the ones that deserve it -- and don't give a toot about your H, who doesn't. Bundle up, watch a comedy, read a book, call a friend, but don't waste a second mulling about what your H thinks. That's a depressing dead-end road. Fantasize about your future instead.
So not sure where you live but for me the blizzard forgot to show up.
Having EXPECTATIONS can really be our down fall.
Everything was crazy yesterday, all bread was bought out of supermarkets in anticipation of todays blizzard which forgot to show up.
