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Originally Posted By: edz
Looks around stretches out and claims comfy beanbag ahhhh nice here....


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Thank you Edz is that you or BFT? The one on the beanbag?

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Originally Posted By: rd500
Hi vanilla. I was 3 weeks late with last years accounts and had to pay a wee penalty !!!!! But it's only money !!!!!! Sitting in front of roaring fire with D13 draped accross me D10 lounging in armchair and S16 lying accross two seater munching popcorn. We are watching Back to the future 2 and life is good. Just got text from W to say she is sorry for all the upset she has caused. !!!!!!

Would love to drive to her , collect all her things and bring her home. SIGH

Have to make do with my beautiful, loving kids instead

Vanilla. If you have any probs with the Revenue tell them RD500 said its ok !!!!!

Take care and thank you for being who you are RD


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Originally Posted By: edz
Looks around stretches out and claims comfy beanbag ahhhh nice here....


Edz quote

Thank you Edz is that you or BFT? The one on the beanbag?

Vanilla



Ahh let me explain how this works..I'm on the beanbag the bft is on me. Double comfy....


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
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Baby steps, an apology from W is a baby step. Just validate say thank you, hold tight to those lovely DS and the popcorn too before S16 has it all!

Relax like Edz and BFT. V is relaxed too, might have another glass of wine and a little carbs for snooze time.

Now what is on the TV now H is out?

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Quick synopsis

V has an in house S with a H who is compulsive. Gambling, alcohol, cigarettes, spending and OWs. H is searching for an OW or possibly two or more, but without long term success.

V was a complete mess before arriving on the board, no consistency and no boundaries. Things have calmed for V, and her H is less successful at abusing V, as V is more detached. Thanks to her DB superstar chums. V loves DB and especially that she is encouraged to GAL and this board as it has really helped her develop.

It is more or less consistent from thread to thread, V is standing for her M and loves her H. H is a set of identical triplets. Which one today?

V is here for a long time, it may take a couple of years to resolve V sitch one way or another.
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Vanilla. You are a legend. For us men , we wish our Ws had half you resolve to save the am and for the ladies you are an example in how to cope. I've said it before Thank you for being you and on here. Enjoy the wine and carbs, you deserve it. Hugs and a cheeky kiss. It is sat nite. Take care. Rd

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Working hard all day from 8 this morning to 10:30 tonight.

H not in evidence anywhere. Peace and quiet. looks like he is out again tonight again? Not sure as the burglar alarm was off, but his TV is silent. He may be tired after golf or beer or both.

Brilliant day, all my people volunteered to come to work and a staff husband did chores for us. Very good day, clients around all day in and out (they really like it as it means no interference with their work day).

I had GAL today twice, one staff brought in a picnic and a client dropped off a basket of fruit.

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Thank you for the support and cheeky kiss!

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V, every time I check in on you I feel like there's nothing to add because you are a BOSS. Love seeing what you have to say, here and on others' threads.


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She believed she could, so she did.
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