I am 95% I want to leave.....

[Hopeful321]

I have been here before. Several years ago. I am not sure how to post the link to my thread.

I have been thinking about leaving for a year now. It seems like things are not getting any better. We have been to several MC and he was not honest at all to any of them. I have been open and honest how I am feeling, told him what I needed and wanted out of this relationship and still nothing. I am physically and emotionally drained.

The day before Christmas Eve, I told him that I was done, finished. He asked with what. I replied back, him and this marriage. He got mad and left. When he returned, he acted like nothing was wrong.

I tried talking to him Christmas Day but he keeps pointing the finger back at me, saying it's all me. He told me if I wanted a divorce then file the papers, however he was not moving out until the divorce was final.

I know he will never change because he doesn't want to, but I can't continue to live like this. I don't know what to do. One therapist told me that he is not willing to change and I should just divorce him and move on. I want too, however a small part of me doesn't want that.

[dingo]

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...179#Post2179179

Above is the link to your first thread.

To find others, simply click on your name and select 'view posts'

It looks like you started quite a few threads and I am not sure which ones are relevant to your current situation. I will leave it to you to go through and re-post links to the threads you'd like people to read.

[Hopeful321]

Thank you so much.

[Hopeful321]

The first thread is about H walking out on me and the second thread is about us getting back together. Reconciliation.

[dingo]

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...038#Post2198038

looks like this one?

Also - you might want to post in the newcomers board as that gets a lot more traffic. I kinda accidentally stumbled into here and I doubt many more people will.

[Hopeful321]

that you I will do that.